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Ch have such difficulty talking to one anotherDrawing on her expertise in legal mediation and conflict resolution Puhn's fresh approach gives simple 5 minute conversations that will instantly improve communication as well as the uality of relationships In Fight Less Love More learn how to identify and conuer the poor verbal habits instinctive responses and emotional reasoning that can cloud judgme. I listened to the book and took notes I actually think this has a lot of really good advice for marriages I have been reading several marriage related book in the last week and they all have very similar themes about what causes issues within relationships Violations of appreciation respect compassion trust and companionship are at the core of all disagreements some books list but they really are just synonyms for theseThe 5 minute conversations while nice in theory I m not sure are achievable as 5 minute conversations especially in the heat of the moment BUT the various ideas within them can be applied and I do think they will help

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Fight Less Love More

Harvard trained lawyer and family and divorce mediator Laurie Puhn shows busy couples how to stop fighting and start communicatingIt happens every day a simple exchange or harmless response turns into a heated debate or worse an all out battle Hard pressed for uality time with our partners and spouses it's easy to fall into a poor communication routine How can two people who love one another so mu. Book Club read good so farThis is a good book even thinking of buying it It is really good for couples in crisis but has great tips for every couple Like the short chapters and difference scenarios

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Nt and ultimately lead to the deterioration of otherwise healthy relationshipsLove is conditional argues Puhn and for love to survive couples don't need to talk they need to talk better With exercises examples and sample scripts Puhn's simple 5 minute strategies promise immediate results and provide long lasting communication skills that couples can confidently employ when faced with future confli. Highlights1 Five vital habits greetings hello and goodbye Good morning Good night I love you for fill in the blank A compliment2 Wrong track five ways over criticize disguising personal preference Using criticism to humiliate your meet in front of others Using criticism to rub it in her face Criticizing something after the fact Correcting a person not a mistake3 Tame rudeness disgruntled couple streets Heather with poor manners Gradually the negative saloon longer larger and we can t help but zoom in on them We pay and attention to our unmet expectations until suddenly without warning we have entered a rough period of love under fire4 Whatever argument when you use it in response to a uestion of choice you automatically give up your right to complain about the outcome5 Inspire appreciation cherish your meet by being his or her head cheerleader Period Many of us don t take this job seriously or relinuish it early on in the relationship by going on autopilot and taking things for granted Denial of appreciation is not simply a bad habit of neglect that innocently grew over time but rather an attempt to punish want to meet for not me not doing what is wanted or expected 6 Orchestrate a perfect apology make music for your ears The beginning turn a molehill into a mountain Don t make diminishing comments Middle dig deep And that your real wrong No buts The end repair and prevents Repair damage It prevents a rerun7 Negotiate for love nothing is ever 50 50 avoid winning at all costs Tell it like it is preferences and what you re willing to give up Get rid of the judge and jury Keep your mouth shut don t make comparisons know alternatives 8 When your mate is criticized in public it is a character revealing moment for you You defend in public even if you disagree and private The clearly you can define what it means to be loyal to each other the stronger you ll be as a couple and the secure you will feel in your love9 Be lovable if you want to be loved you must be lovable Even if your spouse shoots fight lines in your direction that doesn t give you permission to fire back The pain your meet is experiencing from a bad sunburn is explicitly his or her pain At times like this all you can do is offer your support and show your kindness by trying to help alleviate pain10 Listen without criticizing


10 thoughts on “Fight Less Love More

  1. says:

    I LOVE this book Of course I do I'm the author I wrote it for people on the brink of break up and for those who simply want their pretty good relationship to get even better It's not a book of therapy it's a book of answers From the mediation b

  2. says:

    This gets 35 stars for the good information Too cheezy to make anything If you can get past the corny catch phrases specifically the title of the book which is repeated ad nauseam throughout it actually has some g

  3. says:

    Book Club read good so farThis is a good book even thinking of buying it It is really good for couples in crisis but has great tips for every couple Like the short chapters and difference scenarios

  4. says:

    I listened to the book and took notes I actually think this has a lot of really good advice for marriages I have been reading several marriage related book in the last week and they all have very similar themes about what causes issues within relationships Violations of appreciation respect compassion trust and companion

  5. says:

    This book is great I highly highly recommend picking it up whether you’re having issues in your relationship or if you’re just generally looking to be a better spouse I connected well with most of its contents so it really opened my eyes up to things I may have been to stubborn it seeor admit The format of this novel is laid out in sections so you can skip the parts that don’t relate with you or your p

  6. says:

    Nice uick scripts to healthy conversations However doesn't address the underlying issues that might hold someone back from saying the

  7. says:

    Highlights1 Five vital habits greetings hello and goodbye Good morning Good night I love you for fill in the blank A compliment2 Wrong track five ways over criticize – disguising personal preference Using criticism to humiliate your meet in front of others Using criticism to rub it in her face Criticizing something after the fact Correcting a person not a mistake3 Tame rudeness – disgruntled couple streets Heather with poor manners Grad

  8. says:

    I won this book on Goodreads Giveaways Thanks Rodale and GoodreadsI was interested in this book because while my spouse and I have a v

  9. says:

    I won this book on Goodreads First Reads Although I have read several self help books they are not my usualfavorite genre Fight Less Love More was a great read Chapter 3 was my favorite where Puhn spells out specific things to say to set the pr

  10. says:

    Nothing earth shattering but advice on how to communicate with your spouse better Let's face it fights usually a

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